Don’t fall in love with this type of guys

Like every other story starts..

One day I went to library in the morning at 9 AM. I was determined to finish few concepts in the data structures. So i went to third floor straight because it is little peaceful but i couldn’t find a table to sit, there are few chairs that are free. So I took a free chair and started studying. There is a divider beside me it has attached table so I was using it to put my laptop. There is sitting area beside that and one guy occupied it and blocked it using a board. I used to do that. He looks good and hot.

So he suddenly came out and said “hey there is a place in this area if you want we can share the place” I said no I am good. Then after few minutes he came back and said the same, this time I felt like I needed that space since it is more comfortable. So I sat in front if him. He asked me what i was studying? I said related to data structures. I asked him the same question and he said he is studying math for his exam which is in two hours. He asked me if I can help him and I said yes. I understood that he is American, studying business undergrad in my school. He was not able to solve very simple problems. I helped him and he asked my number I gave him. He started to sit beside me. Before he left he asked for a picture and I said no, but insisted and took a photo with me. I asked him why does he need a photo? He said he can show to his friends that hey “ see look at this hot girl in our college”. I hated it so I told not to do any things like that.

Later i left to my class and completely forgot about him. I was busy in my work and at the noon he messaged saying he didn’t do well in his exam, that is he will not get an ‘A’ but he will pass for sure. I told him, i can help him if he want. He said that is so sweet of me and again asked for a pic, I said no. He said he is not asking a nude one, just a normal pic. That’s it I stopped messaging him.

After a month i received a text from him out of blue. He was asking if I am going to wish him birthday? I wished him and I stopped messaging him because again he asked for a pic.

After a year, he messaged me asking if I am doing okay with the pandemic. I felt it was cute so I said I told him I am good and how is he doing. The conversation continued and we set up a date. On the first day, he came on time, casually dressed, I was in jeans with a sling bag, and I could see that we both are attracted to each other. His work place is 20 mins away from my apartment. He was holding my hand and he opened up about his past and told me about his mom, she is a divorcee and how his step dad kicked him out of his house because he is smarter than his step brothers. I felt really happy when he was sharing about his past, I was running my fingers on his hand and was trying to comfort him. I could feel a connection which I never felt with any of my ex’s or any other. He said to play with my hair which was really cute. Then we kissed each other on cheeks and slowly it went onto lips. I told him not to touch my breasts and other private parts but he did. I felt this is a red flag. When he was leaving I got so sad, I myself was confused why. He asked me why I was said I said nothing. He said he will call me the next me and text me.

I came home and I told my roommate what happened, she told me try dating this buy because he does not seem that bad. I thought about it a lot and this person knows how to control his emotions and he is not a freak like my ex, I never expected he will ghost on me. As everyone expects, I was also expecting for him to message me like before the “good morning” text, nah.. it did not come. I thought may be he is busy, then i remembered that it is Saturday (Weekend) so I thought may be he is sleeping. I waited till evening but nothing came. I remembered that he told me he has no signal at his house and he is searching for a house to move since he is not comfortable living with his friend which they discussed it would be temporary because he has two grandparents and three dogs in a small house. So I convinced my self that may be he is too busy with his stuff in the morning and he might come to a place in the evening where there is signal and will call me. Evening came, night came then I searched on google and came know some thing called ghosting on a person. I felt really bad and with this frustration I walked for 7 miles.

I felt bad and I was checking my phone even during the midnight. But there is no message or call. Next day morning, I remembered that he said he wifi although he does not have signal, so I texted him on LinkedIn, because he is not on ay other social platform other than LinkedIn. He said he was missing me so I asked him why he did not message me when he said he will? He answered that he came out to send a message and he sent “hi” but he learned that the message was not delivered only when he went home. So I asked him why could he call instead of messaging when he missed me, he kept on saying sorry.